AOL Music Bette Midler: Jennifer Lopez’s Dating Life the Butt of Entertainer’s Joke — Potent Quotables By Contessa Gayles Apr 19th 2012 AP | Getty Images “Will JayLo [sic] marry that young guy? After the waiter, the first dancer, the actor and the singer? She’s been hit w/ [with] enough rice to feed Taiwan.” — Bette Midler Outspoken singer/actress Bette Midler put Jennifer Lopez on blast via Twitter. The veteran entertainer, 66, questioned the future of J.Lo’s, 42, relationship with 25-year-old Casper Smart. She has of course already been married to Ojani Noa (“The waiter”), Cris Judd (“the first dancer”), engaged to Ben Affleck (“the actor”), and recently split from latest husband Marc Anthony (“the singer”).