You’ve seen Bette Midler on the Broadway stage and on the silver screen (she stars in the upcoming movieÂ Parental Guidance) but what do youÂ reallyÂ know about the Divine Miss M? The performer and comedian doles out a few of her life lessons.
Life Is Not Your Personal Express Lane
You’ve got to figure, “Well, there are 7 billion other people in the world. It doesn’t all have to be about me!” It took me about 66 years to come to this conclusion.
Twenty-seven people sang “Wind Beneath My Wings” before I got around to it. A lot of people saw the movie that I sang it in,Â Beaches,Â and what they came away with was thatÂ song. They turned to their loved ones and said, “You know, youÂ areÂ the wind beneath my wings!” The song expressed how they felt in a way a simple “I love you” would not have.
The Big World Is Better Than Your Little One
When you have had your head down doing something â€”Â even something you love, love, love â€”Â and you finally pick your head up and see the world around you, it’s just so beautiful. It’s just â€¦ oh, my God, I’m so glad I lived! That’s when you realize you need balance. I seek that now all the time.
For a while it was exhausting, and now I don’t really care.
It’s OK to Let Go of a Dream
That’s exactly it: They’re dreams. A lot of the time they’re fantasies, and you become enslaved to them. Sometimes they’re hormonal. When the hormones fade, then the dream no longer means the same thing. That’s when you need to get yourself a new dream.
Beauty Ain’t Pretty
You should be very careful about who does your mani-pedi, because you can really screw your toes up. You should stop beating your hair into submission, even if you don’t like it. Everyone should exfoliate, every day, even guys. More than two drinks a day will ruin your skin. And if you don’t have a full-length mirror, you’re going to get fat. Period.