If you are a woman, the relationship you have with your best girlfriends is special. Itâ€™s different than any you have with your parents, siblings, romantic partners or even other friends. Your best girlfriend almost always knows you better than anyone else. You trust her with your secrets and you know that she is someone you can turn to no matter what. Sheâ€™s someone who will listen to your problems and be honest with you, even it if it hurts.
A best girlfriend will be there to console you when you get dumped at 1 A.M. by that asshole youâ€™ve been sleeping with whoâ€™s been stringing you along for months. And even though she insisted you could do better and you should stop seeing him a long time ago, but you didnâ€™t listen to her, sheâ€™ll take you to an all-night diner and buy you pancakes and coffee and let you cry and bitch and moan without judging you or telling you she told you so.
A true best friend will go shopping with you and tell you when a dress youâ€™ve chosen is totally fug and will help you pick out clothes that hide your fat rolls and make your boobs and ass look amazing. She will talk you out of buying those boots you love that cost almost as much as your rent because she knows you canâ€™t afford them and she doesnâ€™t want you selling any of your other possessions to make ends meet â€” or asking her for money that she doesnâ€™t have but wouldnâ€™t refuse you.
A BFF will gladly judge horrible skanks that your ex is now sleeping with, but will stop you from making an ass out of yourself when you drunkenly decide to approach the bitch and tell her what you think of her. She wonâ€™t judge you when you show up to brunch with greasy bangs and mascara smudged under your eyes, wearing the same clothes you had on the night before.
She will talk to you on the phone for hours about nothing in particular, but wonâ€™t be offended if you donâ€™t call her for two weeks. She will organize your wedding and/or baby shower, even if she hates weddings and babies. She will throw you a surprise party when you think everyone has forgotten your birthday. And if something unfortunate happens, like a death in the family or a bout of depression, she will be there with a fresh box of tissues, your favorite ice cream and many, many hugs.
She will tell you when youâ€™re being a bitch and will expect you to do the same for her. And she will always remind you that, no matter what happens, youâ€™re awesome and fuck anyone who doesnâ€™t think so.
Wow. That all sounded like one of those awful â€œIn honor of womenâ€ forwards your crazy aunt who barely knows how to use her Hotmail account sends you every other week, doesnâ€™t it? Well, whatever. I love my friends and Iâ€™m lucky to have such fierce ladies in my life.
Inspired by a recent viewing of one of my favorite films, Walking and Talking, and the success of the hit female buddy comedy Bridesmaids (which I still havenâ€™t seen because Iâ€™m terrible), I thought Iâ€™d revisit some of my favorite female BFFs in film. Whether theyâ€™re laughing, crying, talking about sex or plotting murder, these ladies all share a strong bond that (for the most part) canâ€™t be broken. And thatâ€™s why I love them.
My list was originally a lot longer than this, but then I noticed that several of the ladies I had listed were BFFs who happened to also be co-workers, so I decided theyâ€™d become their own Filminism post later on.
You really canâ€™t talk about female friendships in film without talking about Beaches. It tells the story of the friendship between wealthy, refined lawyer Hillary Whitney and eccentric singer/actress CC Bloom, who meet as children on the Atlantic City boardwalk. Though they seem like polar opposites, the two immediately connect; Hillary is fascinated by CCâ€™s exotic life as a child entertainer and CC is drawn in by Hillaryâ€™s poise and class (not to mention the fact that her family is rich). The two keep in touch via letters throughout their teenage and college years and, after law school, Hillary arrives in New York City for work and moves in with CC. The two remain close friends the rest of their lives, through marriages, divorces, professional successes and failures, births and illnesses. Though they have their ups and downs â€” including falling in love with the same man â€” their friendship is strong and they both realize that they are the only people each other can count on.
One of the ultimate tearjerker chick flicks (I hate that term, but it really must be used to describe this movie), Beaches may be sappy and melodramatic at times, but then so can female friendships.
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